9 Signs It’s Time To Call It Quits With Your Boyfriend

If that little voice in your
head is telling you that
things have changed for the
worst, here are 10 signs to
confirm that (before you
jump out too soon)

1. You’re constantly

irritated by your partner.
There comes a time in every
romantic relationship
where partners find
themselves annoyed by one
another. While this is
perfectly normal, if you
are constantly irritated by
him or find everything he
does frustrating, it might be
a sign that you’re no longer
in love.

2. Your eyes are wandering.

When you and your man
first got together you had no
interest in looking at or for
other men. So, if you catch
yourself checking out other
guys now, this is probably a
big red flag. If anytime you
go out with the ladies, to the
grocery store or online
you’re looking at other
men, then you may need to
take a look at your
relationship. It’s one thing
to notice an attractive man,
but if you’re constantly
leading with your eyes,
you’re leading yourself in
another direction.

3. You’re no longer

physically attracted to your
partner.
When you are madly in love
you can’t keep your hands
off your partner. However,
when you may no longer be
feeling the love, you also
don’t feel attracted. You
start finding excuses to not
touch each other
anymore, or you blame not
wanting to kiss your man
on things like not liking
PDA. 

4. You aren’t excited the
thought of being with them
anymore.
Again, looking at the
beginning of your
relationship you were
excited to see your partner
and you missed him when
he was away. Sure, it’s
normal for the excitement
to settle over time, but if
you find yourself missing
the butterflies and feeling
nothing for your guy then
there’s probably not much
left. 

 5. You’re more focused on
yourself than your
relationship.
This is a hard one to face,
but if you only care to
make plans for yourself or
think about a future that’s
has just YOU in it, then it
may be because you
subconsciously realize
you’re no longer in
love. Ask yourself if you
consider your man’s wants
and needs when planning
things.
Do you find yourself
disregarding his thoughts
and feelings? Recognizing
these habits can tell you a
lot about your feelings. 

6. Your man is the only
person you hang out with
(and you’re not happy
about it).
If you start to realize that
your man has become your
one and ONLY best friend,
this might be a problem. It’s
natural for couples to
become best buds, but if the
best friend role has taken
over and the BOYFRIEND
role vanished, it may be
because you’re holding on
to a friendship instead of a
romantic relationship.
That’s not to say there’s
something wrong with
being B.F.Fs, just ask
yourself if you are still in
LOVE with your man, or if
you’re just loving his
friendship. 

7. You’d rather spend your
time with someone else.
If you find yourself
spending all your free time
with friends or co-workers
instead of your partner,
then it may be because
you’re no longer in
love. Again, this may be a
hard realization to accept
but if you’ve jumped from
spending all of your time
with your man to spending
no time with him, then it’s
time to face the music.

8. You feel like something is
just … missing.
You may know by now,
falling out of love is hard to
explain. It’s not easy to put
this feeling into words, but
if there’s one thing you can
comprehend it’s that
something is
missing. Maybe you’re
longing for the good ol’
days, or wondering what
your life could be life if you
followed different
dreams. Either way,
this feeling of emptiness is a
big sign that you’re ready to
move on without him. 

9. You argue WAY too
much.
When you’re in love even
the smallest argument can
feel like the end of the
world. So, if you’re ALWAYS
arguing, then guess what? It
may not be fixable. Arguing
is a normal part of life and
relationships, but if you
don’t remember the last day
you went without a tiff, then
it may be time to
acknowledge the elephant
in the room. If you’re
willing to get back on track
and bring the love back into
your lives— that’s great. But
if not, it might be time to
throw in the towel and
move on to bigger and
better things